I'm worn out and am posting the same message here and on FB.
Things calmed down-- for one day. FIL got out of the hospital yesterday, Amber went to her checkup today, was fine for an hour or so, then her entire incision came open. After a CT scan and chest x-rays to rule out pneumonia since she was having pain in her sides, the doctors found that she had an infection inside and they can't close up her incision now. That's some scary shit right there, and she's being kept for several days at the hospital, on IV antibiotics, with her wound open so it can drain. Dr said they won't be able to re-suture later either, so a very long time to heal and no picking Elijah up for months. As for Charlie, she can have the baby up there if another adult is there, too, so I'll be sleeping at the hospital most nights starting tomorrow. And, I probably won't be on much anywhere as we'll be taking care of Elijah and Charlie at times.
**huggz** to y'all.